How Do You know if you should adopt Your Foster Dog?

Hello, we wanted to share about what it’s like trying to decide if you should officially adopt your foster dog!

It’s not always an obvious choice, so we know exactly what you’re going through if you currently have a foster pup.

First, Lindsay writes about trying to decide whether or not to adopt her foster dog, Lana. then Barbara writes about why she decided to adopt her foster pup, Pablo (now named Wally West!).

Last, we try to answer a few common questions to help you make the right decision with your own foster dog.

Should I adopt my foster dog?

Lindsay here!

This won’t surprise anyone, but my husband Josh and I are wondering if we should adopt our foster dog Lana (Robin).

We’ve been going back and forth about it ever since she came to stay with us two weeks ago.

Here’s why: I can’t think of a better second dog for us.

If we don’t adopt Lana, it won’t be because of her. It’s because we might not be ready for two permanent dogs quite yet.

You’d think this would be an easy choice, but it’s very hard! I love Lana but I’m not sure we’re quite ready for two dogs.

I’m not looking for advice on whether or not we should adopt. It’s a decision Josh and I (and our dog Ace) need to make for ourselves.

Still, I’m curious how the rest of you decided whether or not to adopt your foster dogs or cats. Επιτρέψτε μου να μάθω στα σχόλια.

Note that I’m definitely not one to get attached to my foster animals normally.

I’ve fostered about 14 dogs and 4 cats, and the typical text I send Josh when I find out one of them is getting adopted goes something like:

“Barkley got adopted!! δόξα τω θεώ!!”

And then he responds with something like, “WOOOO!”

And then I crack open a beer to celebrate.

Of course, I love my foster animals, but most of them are very stressful.

Foster dogs are a lot of work!

Fostering is usually a lot of work, and Lana is no exception.

She’s been waking me up at 5 a.m. every morning, yipping, and it pisses me off.

She hogs all the attention from Ace, which I find extremely frustrating.

She whines and gets way too excited when we pass other dogs on walks, and I’m realizing she is leash aggressive.

Far from perfect. pretty much a brat, actually. but we still love her. She’s so cute!

Someone please apply for her soon! ;

2020 UPDATE: We ended up finding the perfect home for Lana, a very athletic, recently retired couple adopted her. They live on a ranch in southern California and are very active with their animals every day. Lana is so happy with her new family, and we ended up getting a weimaraner puppy, Remy.

Now Barbara will share her story about her foster pup, Wally.

“Foster fail:” Why I decided to adopt my foster dog

Hi, Barbara here! I write regularly for That Mutt. I’m also a blogger over at K9s Over Coffee and a foster failure! Here’s how it happened.

I fostered my now pup Wally for exactly one month before I decided to adopt him myself. That was in January of 2019.

I had lost my previous pup, Boxer mix Missy, to cancer in April of 2018. A few months before that, her brother Buzz had moved in with my ex, so I went from having two pups at the house to none.

That feeling of coming home to an empty house sucked. As a matter of fact, it didn’t feel like coming home anymore at all. home was always where my dogs were, and suddenly my home was nothing but an empty building.

While I really wanted to have a doggie companion again, I just couldn’t get myself to pull the trigger on finding a new furry friend.

I know it sounds silly, but it felt like I’d be cheating on Missy and Buzz. Every now and then, I watched a friend’s little pups at my place, but it wasn’t the same as being with my own dogs.

How I became a foster mom in the first place

8 months later, in December of 2018, I finally decided that I was ready to browse pictures of adoptable pups on PetFinder.com.

A pretty female pup, Delilah, caught my eye. She was a larger black & white mutt. once I started inquiring about her, the rescue organization told me that she was being fostered by a family.

Long story short, I submitted an application along with a virtual tour of my house and multiple references.

Once it was approved, I went out to the family’s home and met Delilah. She was a real sweetheart, and her foster mom and I took her for a walk so that I could experience her on a leash. She was great!

I would have been able to take her home with me right then and there, except that I had already made plans to go to the beach for a few days over new Year’s with a friend.

We rented a beach home that didn’t allow dogs, so I wouldn’t have been able to take Delilah along with me on that trip.I asked the rescue if they would hold Delilah for a week until I got back from my trip. To my surprise, they weren’t willing to do that and explained that dogs were being adopted on a first come, first serve basis. δίκαιο.

One week later, Delilah had been adopted by a different family!

I was disappointed of course, but then a few days later the rescue lady asked me if I’d be willing to foster a dog who’d just been returned after having been adopted a month before. I felt bad for the pup and said yes.

Enter Wally, the Feist Dog

That’s how Wally entered my life and turned me into a foster mom, except back then his name was still Pablo. Pablo-Wally was a 38 lb Feist mix.

If you’ve never heard about that breed, you can read more about it in that Mutt’s article What is a Feist Dog?

Feist mix Wally and Barbara

Pablo-Wally moved in with me in early January. one of the advantages of fostering a dog is that the rescue organization covers all food and medical costs. All I had to provide was TLC and a safe place.

Stressful first few days

The first few days with Pablo-Wally were stressful as we didn’t know each another yet. He didn’t know what I expected of him and vice versa.

So, Pablo-Wally was stressed out the first few days of our new living situation. He showed me just how stressed he was when he decided to lift his leg on the back of my beautiful midcentury sectional. πολλές φορές. ΧΑΨΙΑ!

I thought about it and then came to the conclusion that this had to be stress-related on his part and therefore temporary. However, the behavior itself had to be fixed right away.

So I went ahead and wrapped a doggie diaper around him in a first quick-solution attempt. That worked right away and his leg stayed down.

Another path I took was to leash him inside the house when he wasn’t wearing his diaper and either attach the leash to me or some nearby furniture, e.g. the fridge when I was cooking in the kitchen. When I wasn’t home, I crated him, but never for any longer than 4 hours.

The rescue lady also suggested to give him a few of those relaxation pills that he came with. I think it was Alprazolam, but I’m not entirely sure of the name anymore.

Those combined attempts worked out nicely and he soon stopped wanting to mark inside the house.

Do I really want to keep fostering this pup?!

I’ll be honest and say that that very question popped into my mind when I made the mistake of comparing Pablo-Wally to my late pup Missy.

After all, Missy had never peed on my furniture. She also never did any of his other “interesting” behavior! read on for a few more GULP moments!

The bed destruction

For example, Pablo-Wally had no clue what to do with a doggie bed. ΤΙ?! I still had Missy’s plush round bed, so I was willing to pass it on to him. Technically, she had always been a little too big for it, but she had loved curling up in it.

Pablo-Wally first preferred to lie down next to it. He finally agreed to walk into it when I put a tasty treat in there.

He then figured out fairly quickly that this was a pretty comfy space to be in.

However, just a few days into our foster adventure, he also figured out that it was super fun to bite right into the plush raised rim and pull the stuffing out. ΧΑΨΙΑ! Missy had never done that!!

Pablo-Wally lounging in Missy’s old bed, before he decided to rip it apart!The “anything-plush” destruction

Clearly I also didn’t know that he had a thing for destroying anything plush, regardless of size, shape, and purpose. He destroyed that bed followed by countless plush toys and anything else that was plush, regardless of whether it was a doggie thing or not.

The expensive toy-kidnapping phase

The first few times I took him along into pet retail stores, he managed to “kidnap” plush toys we walked by and then refused to let go.

I ended up having to pay for them, and Pablo-Wally proudly trotted out of the store, tightly holding on to his precious “prey” which was promptly destroyed thereafter. GULP yet again. Missy had also never done that!!

By the way, he’s gotten a lot better at controlling his impulse to simply steal plush toys when we’re out shopping, but he’s still drawn to them. The moment I don’t pay attention, he’ll still grab one. except that now, he allows me to take it out of his mouth.

The itchy skin phase

Pablo-Wally came to me as one itchy pup. I immediately made the connection between his itchy skin and the poor quality dry dog food he was eating.

I have to interject that I’ve been feeding raw dog food since 2015. over the years I’ve come to majorly appreciate one of tΟφέλη από τη διατροφή του RAW, που είναι η υγιής όψη του δέρματος του σκύλου.

Αυτό δεν μεταφράζεται σε κνησμώδη σημεία και χωρίς δάγκωμα/γλείψιμο/ξύσιμο στο δέρμα. Και αυτό ακριβώς έκανε ο Pablo-Wally τη νύχτα. Κάθε 45 λεπτά περίπου τον άκουσα να σηκώσει το κεφάλι του ακολουθούμενο από “γρατσουνιά, γρατσουνιά, γρατσουνιά” και “γλείψιμο, γλείψιμο, γλείψιμο”. Ugh! Τόσο ενοχλητικό και πραγματικά μπέρδεψε με τον ύπνο μου!

Θυμάμαι αμέσως προσθέτοντας ένα ωμό αυγό στο ξηρό φαγητό του το επόμενο πρωί μετά από το scratchy/φαγούρα νύχτα, ακολουθούμενη από την αποστολή της κυρίας διάσωσης και ζήτησε άδεια να αλλάξει τη διατροφή του σε ωμά τρόφιμα σκυλιών.

Τεχνικά ήταν στο σκάφος με μια πιο υγιεινή διατροφή, αλλά μου ζήτησε να επιλέξω ένα φαγητό που θα ήταν εύκολο να εφαρμοστεί από τον επόμενο υιοθετήρα του.

Μετάφραση: Χωρίς ακατέργαστα τρόφιμα σκυλιών, αλλά η αφυδατωμένη ακατέργαστη τροφή για σκύλους θα ήταν μια χαρά. ΕΓΙΝΕ! Πήγα και πήρα λίγο αφυδατωμένο το βοδινό κρέας χωρίς κόκκους της Honest Kitchen που βοήθησε πολύ. Δεν εξαλείφει το ξύσιμο και το γλύψιμο των συνεδριών του 100%, αλλά όπως είπα, έγινε λιγότερο έντονη.

Όταν σκέφτηκα πόσο διαφορετικά ήταν ο Wally από τη Missy, έκανα τον ακόλουθο πνευματικό κατάλογο των ελλείψεων του Wally:

Feist Mix. Η Missy ήταν ένα μίγμα μπόξερ.
Σημάδια για έπιπλα. Η Missy δεν το έκανε ποτέ.
Καταστρέφει τα κρεβάτια και τα παιχνίδια σκύλων. Η Missy κατέστρεψε μόνο τα παιχνίδια βελούδινης σκύλων όταν ήταν κουτάβι.
Κλέβει παιχνίδια βελούδου σκυλιών από καταστήματα λιανικής πώλησης κατοικίδιων ζώων. Η Missy δεν το έκανε ποτέ.
Έχει φαγούρα. Η Missy δεν το έκανε-αλλά και πάλι, ήταν επίσης ακατέργαστη.
Δεν του αρέσει το νερό/κολύμπι. Η Missy αγαπούσε και τα δύο!

Γιατί δεν πρέπει να συγκρίνω τον Pablo-Wally με το τελευταίο μου κουτάβι Missy

Και έπειτα μου φάνηκε. Εγκρίθηκα Missy (μαζί με το Buzz) όταν ήταν 8 εβδομάδων. Ως κουτάβι. Αυτό σήμαινε ότι ήμουν εκεί για να της διδάξω αυτό που ήθελα σε ένα κουτάβι από το get-go.

Ο Wally δεν είχε αυτό το πλεονέκτημα. Δεν είχε την πολυτέλεια ενός μόνιμου σπιτιού με αγαπημένους ανθρώπους που τον καθοδήγησαν απαλά μέσα από το κουτάβι. Αντ ‘αυτού, ήταν σε 4 (!) Διαφορετικά σπίτια μέσα στο πρώτο έτος της ζωής του. Το σπίτι μου ήταν ο αριθμός 5!

Δεν είναι περίεργο ότι ήταν συγκεχυμένος και ενήργησε! Ήταν επίσης άδικο να συγκρίνουμε τη φυσική του εμφάνιση με αυτά του Missy. Μετά από όλα, ήταν και τα δύο εντελώς διαφορετικά σκυλιά και προφανώς δεν ήταν δικό του λάθος ότι δεν ήταν μέρος του μπόξερ.

Μόλις συνειδητοποίησα ότι, η αποστολή μου ήταν σαφής. Έπρεπε να πηδήσω πάνω από τη σκιά μου και να δώσω στον Pablo-Wally την καλή ζωή του κουταβιού που άξιζε, πράγμα που σημαίνει:

Δεν υπάρχουν πλέον μεταβαλλόμενα σπίτια, αλλά ένα σπίτι για πάντα
Τακτική άσκηση για να τον εκπληρώσει διανοητικά και σωματικά
Πραγματικό φαγητό πάνω από επεξεργασμένα ξηρά τρόφιμα σκύλου
Πολλά TLC

Ήρθα σε αυτή την συνειδητοποίηση ξαφνικά, περίπου 4 εβδομάδες στην περιπέτεια μας. Όταν έστειλα email στην κυρία Rescue για να την ενημερώσω ότι θα ήθελα να υιοθετήσω τον εαυτό μου Pablo-Wally, αμέσως συμφώνησε!

Αυτό το βράδυ, ο Pablo-Wally και πήγα σε μια μικρή βόλτα με αυτοκίνητο για να αγοράσω ένα σακίδιο σκυλιών γι ‘αυτόν. Ήθελα να έχει ένα δικαίωμα τότε και εκεί, και το έχει αγαπήσει από τότε!

Ο Wally προσπαθεί στο νέο του σακίδιο σε ένα κατάστημα κατοικίδιων ζώων στο Cary, NC

Θα πιστεύει ο ανατριβός σκύλος μου ότι τον εγκατέλειψα;

Ειλικρινά, νομίζω ότι η απάντηση σε αυτή την ερώτηση είναι συνήθως ένα μεγάλο λίπος “όχι”. Αυτό οφείλεται στο γεγονός ότι τα σκυλιά είναι σε θέση να προσαρμοστούν σε διαφορετικές καταστάσεις διαβίωσης.

Ωστόσο, είναι μια από τις ερωτήσεις που έθεσα τον εαυτό μου όταν ζυγίζω τα πλεονεκτήματα και τα μειονεκτήματα της υιοθέτησης του Wally. Μετά από όλα, είχε ήδη βρεθεί σε 5 διαφορετικά σπίτια, συμπεριλαμβανομένου και των δικών μου. Θα παραδεχτώ ότι λόγω αυτού του γεγονότος, έφερε κάποιο τεράστιο βάρος στη διαδικασία λήψης αποφάσεων.

Τελικά, ήταν επίσης το κύριο κίνητρό μου στην υιοθέτηση του Wally. Πραγματικά δεν ήθελα να συνεχίσει να μεταβιβάζεται από το ένα σπίτι στο άλλο. Είχα μια χαρά που το φαγούρα του και το σκυλί εργασίας του BAC